Here is my lovely momento.
I write a poem called “In my parents’ house”.
In 1995 my mother, Helen Burling Ottaway, makes teapots with the poem on the pot. She gives me one for Christmas.
She dies of cancer in 2000. My sister chooses my poem to read at her memorial.
A friend then reads the poem at my sister’s memorial in 2012 (also cancer), because I missed the California memorial. I was sick at home with pneumonia #2.
After she dies, I am sent a box of a few things from her house. Yarn and a second teapot. My sister had one.
I give the teapot to my niece, my sister’s daughter, telling her her grandmother made it.


My mother signed things with an H inside an O.
Here is the poem:
In my parents’ house
love is dispensed in teacups
When they notice you
Pacing in some empty mood
Or with that blank deserted face
Eyes shutters into an empty mind
They say, “Would you like a cup of tea?”
The warmth of the cup in your hands
And the hot liquid, sweet and milky
On your tongue works wonders
And binds your soul to your body
When my sister is twelve
She embroiders a patch for a quilt
In yellow flosses, a cup
with steam curling upwards
And the words, “Such a comfort. TEA.”
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I think my maternal family still has the quilt, with jeans patches. My grandmother Katy B handed out squares to everyone at the cabins in Ontario and we all made squares. She and my cousin sewed them together and tied the quilt.
For the Ragtag Daily Prompt: momento.
It might be because I am a carver, but some of the things I most prize from my family are the “made”, like the children’s tug boat my grandfather made for his sons, which I now have on my shelf. I know that some people see these as just things, but they can be the ligatures that hold a family together over the generations.
I love hearing the stories behind that stuff!
And I love the little crafty minutia like you mothers “chop” of an H within an O – simple but elegant.
I have a “chop” too: a T with a K horizontally using the crossbar of the T and then an O around that. My grandfather had a dragonfly for FTB and my grandmother had a pine tree for KWB. My sister and I designed ours as kids, playing in my grandparent’s potting studio, making clay things.
So lovely!
What a lovely thing to keep, and the poem is beautiful.
Thank you so much!