The introverted thinker walks away

We go to our first parent teacher conference for our daughter. Kindergarten.

“Your daughter is unusual.” says the teacher.

“Mmmm.” I say.

“She is unusual on the playground. At recess. She will play with the other girls. But not if they are mean to someone. Not if they start ganging up. And it doesn’t matter who it is. She will walk away and play by herself.”

“Good.” I say.

“The other kids are realizing that she won’t tolerate any mean talk or ganging up.”

We make appropriate appreciative parental noises.

“She is influencing them. She doesn’t argue, she doesn’t say anything, she just walks away.”

2 thoughts on “The introverted thinker walks away

  1. shoreacres says:

    Your daughter just offered this 70 year old a word of affirmation. Or, rather: you did, by telling the story. It has taken a good bit of energy to keep walking away through this election process, but I’ve managed it so far. I think I can manage it just a little more, now.

    • drkottaway says:

      Thank you. I wish I could be as smart as my daughter, but I keep trying to learn from her. Hugs.

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